SUMMARY of 2010....

Another yr has passed... & i will just briefly blog about the highlights of 2010..

I rmb getting a tattoo of my hubby's chinese character on the side of my waist "Quan" during Feb '10.. He was still my bf & we haven talked abt marriage at all but i knew hes the one and i was confident of our relationship.

For holidays, we went to club med bintan, went to harris resort batam..

I started my pt degree programme.. tking 2 modules at a time so 2 lessons a week. At this rate, it will be a 2 yr programme. I dint really study for my exams, only took 1D of AL to study.. hope i will pass, results only out in the 2nd or 3rd week of Jan.

My BTO flat at fernvale, we choose 18 storey... paid the downpayment alr and will be expecting to collect the keys either late 2013 or early '14. Across the road frm my BTO flat is Jalan Kayu. Rather near the red line areas like "Yishun, AMK, YCK"..

Did a 10km run with boyfrd, cousin & frds for charity..

Got married to my 2yrs old boyfriend at Amara Hotel with a hotel lunch buffet and tea ceremony. The food was rather gd i would say and it was a very special & happy day for me. =)

Nik's name is now nik wang instead of his old surname tt followed his birth dad. *Disclaimer* Even thou he had his father's surname, i was not married to the father. It was just a declaration that the child is his and thus nik's surname followed him.

Prob a lot more than what ive planned to acheive in 2011... Dint expect myself to get married so soon.. but i am happier now.. =) my life/family seems complete.

WHAT I LOOK FORWARD IN 2012.

Nik gg to P1... i am more nervous than he is...hope he is able to adapt to primary sch, make more frens, study hard and have a happy childhood.

My honeymoon w hubby to Taiwan this late Apr (aft my exams).

Gg overseas as a family *with nik* later part this yr.

Saving up and hitting our target for this year.

Eat healthier, fall sick less often.

With that, i will end the post as right now am sick and feel sleepy...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

School starts this weekend. Ok, bridging, to be exact. Sat & Sun , 9-6pm.
Then work.. mon-fri.. when sep comes, no more wkends.. just 2 lessons aft work per week..

I could really need some support & encouragement right now.

Not in the best of mood, a colleague passed away recently & am very sorry for her family. Found out 2 of my male frds whom are in a r/s are like straying & etc. Really demoralising it is. Sigh sigh.

Back t update. but im very sleepy atm actually. -.-

I know ive always been going on & on how gd clement my bf is to me... But its just true.. & today i shall elaborate more on tt.

He has always been patient with me. I gt stressed up pretty easily & everyday im complaining abt the slightest things to him.. yet.. he nv found me irritating & always comforted me/assured me.

He trusts me 100%.. allows me to do whatever i wan... He isnt stingy with me. During the time tt i dint work for 2 mths... he was my support... of cos i still had some savings.. but i hd no income.. yet bills & etc were coming n coming.. he offered to help pay all for me & buy me whatever i needed even thou he himself isnt very well to do. Sacrifice..

& usu when i dont work, i don get subsidy for nik's childcare. tt wud mean like $400 a mth? he even offered to hlp pay for 2 mths.. tts 800$ frm his own savings.... heng i was smart.... & i managed to get the subsidy ... still, even i don bear to spend tt amount on childcare. Nik, not his flesh n blood but he still offered to give me the mny & told me tt its ok.. money can always earn bck.

He doesnt drink nor smoke. thank god. cant stand smoke in the hse.... doesnt drink means tt he doesnt go to night clubs n etc. which saves me all the worrying =)

During the time i had no job, he spends like 4nights in a wk with me.. & somehow it stayed tt way.. recently he got leave yet he spend every day wit me. usu his off he wud help me send nik to sch. so i can slp abit more n hv ample time to gt ready for work. even if he is working. he would send nik to sch befre gg to work.. even on his leave/off, he wud wk up earli to send nik to sch.. go bac hm rest, then fetch me frm work again...

All these small actions might not sound like anything. but its the effort. no matter what i wan.. he oblige me... he is honest, good personality..easy gg, he listens.. he doesnt mind my past.. i am the 1st gf.. lol.. i can nv stand ex-gfs.. so this is good so i have no one to be jealous abt n etc... & the list goes on.....

He may not be romantic at times.. so what? hes true.

& i want to get married in 3 yrs time. Have 1 kid in 3-4 yrs time. and if possible have another. and i will live in a 4 rm flat in sengkang. tts my plan. all to have and be done by the time im 28. =)

Am here to blog about my recent trip to Clubmed. Bt im too lazy to post pics. Spoiler rt.... go check 'em out in fb.... =P

So Bf & I went to Club med Bintan last Apr, no idea why ppl think its a cruise. ITS NOT. can check it out here @

http://www.clubmed.com.sg/cm/home.do?PAYS=362&LANG=AE

Its abit costly... but a nice experience.. we went cos der was a $300 dollar promo off for 2 pax and i knew we had to go if not i can nv bear to spend this kind of $$$ on a hol. LOL. for two of us for a 4D3N stay was abt 1.2k++. quite high end...

*inclusive of the hotel, ferry, food & drinks *alcoholic ones as well*, activities thruout the stay.

Have to say the G.Os der were super over friendly. Even befre reaching, on the bus, cud see them waving at us to welcome us... upon reaching, had ice lemon tea & a resfreshing clean cold towel for us. not the packet kind but the face towel.. Listened to some briefing then was brot to our rooms by a G.O named Jaa. She was frm thailand & shes super friendly. Spoke to her quite alot during the stay =).

Once at our rooms, was happy to see a very cosy n spacious rm... wasnt expecting a room like tt.. der was a side bed.. and air con was cold alr.. we quickly washed up abit & head for our buffet lunch at the waterfall restaurant.

The spread was nice.. der was like western,jap,korean,chinese,indian,cold,hot,breads,soups,desserts... like a international hotel buffet. HAHA. excited like a lil kid & tried almost everything. After lunch we went to the bar to get some drinks. I rmb my first drink was a brandy or rum wit coke & i swore i saw the bartender poured like half full of alcohol befre adding the coke.. lol.
& bf got some cocktail to drink as he isnt a gd drinker.

We spend the day playing at the beach & jus lying der.... the beach was simply beautiful... u can jus sit der the whole day... sipping on ur margarita or coffee... enjoying the sea breeze wit ur loved ones... amazing.. i realli miss the beach....

At night they had performances to entertain us, comedies, music, circus shows, the bars had r&b night....

Ok im really sleepy nw i shall jus sum up...

Many activities der as well. u can try the trapenze *duno hw to spell*, snorkelling, kayaking, soccer, mahjong, pingpong, basketball, tennis, squash, archery, gym, badminton,water aerobics, yoga, thai boxing.. etc as many times as u wan..

& its damn shiok cos the beach is private, only ppl in club med can use. so its damn clean *they said they hav a machine to clean it everyday* sand damn clean, waters oso clean... u know its safe u can jus stroll at the beach a night... and the pool.. u can swim anytime.. even at 12midnight.. shiok or wad? most pools closes at 10pm.. then u can drink by the pool.... u can drink all u wan.. eat all u wan.... play all u wan. end of the day u have a nice cozy air con rm wit a comfty bed then u and ur partner can sleep on & just relax and watch tv....... tt is life man.

And everytime i go overseas i tend to have tis "lost" feeling. as u duno whr to go and ure foreigners. But at club med, we felt at home. any help we nid, we cud ask.... and its safe. Very gd place be it for couples or families. if u brot ur kid along they even hav a mini club to look aft em and plan activities for em!

Ok hope no one got bored reading tis very wordy entry..... now some updates on myself.

Got a pt job as a usher at MBS theatres. One wk work once.. quite flexible..u can choose but i gt my full time job as well so i choose sat.. not bad job.. like if u work 10 hrs , real work is actually only abt 2 hrs as during the show just need to stand ard, u can watch the show too. Pay is like 9/hr and u get paid for trg. so far i went for my first shift. 5hrs... and we had 2 days of trg. and like tt i can get like abt 160+ to my bank acct? Get paid every wk... nice. =))

Plans for BTO to be delayed alil as bf wants to chg job soon.. now hes still looking ard, given the opp, he will change. happy for him =) hope he can get a job related to his exp or his diploma + office hrs!

Next hol destination i duno whr... so many places wana go.. wana bring nik to some as well.. KL, Msia, HK, Taiwan, BKK, bali.. the list goes on.....

Wow. Been like almost 3 months since i last blogged. In between, i had so much fun. With bf, nik & my friends.

Too lazy to summerize like what happened during the past 3 months.. i guess FB tells it all.

Dint get to go to Hongkong but settled for Club Med Bintan instd with Boyfrd *End of April* Can't wait.!!!

Trying hard to save3 cos i really want my own place & being to survive on my own in few years to come. Really happy that Boyfrd made my wish partially come true when he went ahead and reg us for the 1st BTO tis year. *cause i only turned 21 last dec* I always told myself i want a place of my own asap aft i am able to.. i just hope we will be able to get the BTO launched tis yr. March they are having like one more sale launch in Sengkang. ^_^

As usual, nik has been really notti. sometimes not listening to me & screaming in the house. god, totally cannot tk it. I am close with my "G6" clan haha. Can play Mahjong better...

Boyfrd being patient & accomodating as ever even on my really bad days. like i wud totally turn into some crazy women sometimes accusing him of stuffs he dint do or get mad easily... but he always cools me down and assures tt things are alright. I duno where is all this insercurities coming from man. Hes just like the one guy u know u can trust. :)

My new bed is coming tml! I cannot wait. hohoho. So are the weekends. !

2010..

-Changed a couple of jobs but had fun in between.. worked at uob as a teller.. M1 as a cust serv officer.. crazy elephant as a waitress.. giodarno ladies as a sales assistant.. Comex/IT fair ( sales & trade in counter ) .. Iph 4 launch.. Epicentre (dint even start i quitted lol)

Gotta say that pay is definately not the thing im looking out for. Of cos it wud be good to get a job with gd pay la but colleagues are v impt.. when i was at crazy, pay was gd, i could earn like 90$ in a night as a waitress (pay+tips) but dint really like e environment.. neither did i liked my M1 nor UOB environment thou pay was gd enuf... but i had fun temping jobs.. made alot of new frds, nice ppl frm work... part time also means flexibility.. i can choose when i wana work.. i cud stay up late.. etc etc. Downside will definately be less income compared to full time.. but Boyfrd was always der to support me.. emotionally/financially..

I partied hard. i love parties, dancing, music... usu i don spend so much.. cos share w frds or they can sign me in etc.. but gonna cut down partying by 80% frm nx yr as im saving up for my future ( house/family)

-Made a few amazing frds tt really look after me... Seriously i really think god always has put angels in disguise ard me.. Ppl who care for me like their own family even knw i haven knwn em for so long... its amzing....

-Found an ideal job... working hours/timing is just right for me to send & fetch nik frm sch... Job scope is fairly easy .. colleagues all nice ppl... etc etc..

-Have my 1st longest relationship ever.. im tgt with my bf for a year alr. My past r/s all get complicated aft max 9 mths... & i forsee myself gg far with clement...

-Went overseas w bf (Krabi), BKK with family.

-Awesome dec! full of surprises & lots of fun & parties. 3 of my best presents: Lx5 cam frm bb, Imac frm ali, Bd cake frm nicole & rebekah.. & of cos angpow frm mummy!!! love my other presents too of course ranging frm mostly bottles.. hahaha.. gt nice jewellery, accessories, watch, dress..facial products..balloons... etc. <3!!!

-Very happy to see nik growing up.. Hes more sensible.. somethings he says are just so cute & innocent... good to see hes healthy & happy.. even thou he doesnt have a completet family (yet).. der are so many ppl out der tt dotes on him so much that sometimes im quite happy things turn out this way... no one to fight with me for his attention.. i can make all the decisions for him without havin to consider someone elses opinion.. i can have all his love to myself... =DDD I just love to bring him out.. be it just dinner, shopping, to sch, frm sch, to the parks, the playgrds. to see him smile mks my heart smile. & that now ive clement to go thru everything with me. . everythings perfect e way it is....

*Ppl tt know me well prob know i spoil nik sometimes.. buyin wadever he wans me to buy him. i think i spend twice as much $$ on him then myself. HAHAHA.....

" with u .. bad things are twice as bad, & the good things twice as gd .. " tts prob why my 2010 was twice as gd as any other yr.... :) def 1 of the better yrs la i would say.

NOW FOR 2011,

Boyfrd & i are gg to go Hongkong.. preferbably in feb.
Going to register 4 a flat if der is a suitable location.
Bring nik out to more places.
Save $$$, stop partying...

Alrte will update again soon or wadever.. im sleepy now.. zzz! night peeps!

DECEMBER MADNESS. i'm gonna emphasize again i really love DECEMBER! everytym its dec of the mth i feel ultra happy x 10 !

No pics as im bloggin frm my new imac. Shall do like a summary of wad argar argar happened.

1st wk of dec. One of my best gal friends 21st! -Vanessa-
Went ladies night w her and some galfrds to butter.. music was good. but we were more in fash.. was introduced to dark cherry mocha frap by vanessa and i m loving it! having it like twice a wk..

The following sat, went to shanghai dollies w colleague , manager & a few other ppl.. They opened like 3 btls.. haha.. controlled myself. dint wana let em see me wasted.

On 6th, took leave to celebrate a friends bd, super last min la..went for astons.. then caught a movie, then prawning at sin ming followed by dinner at prata house.. i had loads of fun. i hope u felt the same way too! ^_^

At night bb surprised me with my present, was an early one so i cud use the cam to tk pics of my party & etc.. Was a LX5! love it... ^_^

Worked for 2 days then it was my leave again.. Weds night, clement & i met up wit nicholas & rebekah for dinner @ Waraku (Marina Sq outlet) Ordered bibimbap for myself..had tenpura, salmon sashimi.. etc.. the couple ordered alot too. haha. nice! i just cant get enuf of jap food seriously i cud eat it everyday! Afterwhich went to ice cube to hv ice cream.. the one near chompchomp.. Aft tt the couple went bac first as rebekah had work. Since clems & i was on leave he drove us to mustafa.. went der to look ard if we could get anything for my party.

Thurs, 9-12-10
Checked in to aranda. First thing was i fell aslp on the bed for 2 hrs. hehe. had zichar dinner then went hm to fetch mummy to giant so we cud get the drinks. Spent like 200$ just on drinks and etc stuff so u can imagine how much drinks we bot... haha. *non-alcohol drinks*.. alcohol all settled liao. =p

Fri 10-12-10
The party itself! First to arrive was a surprise, ali, he brot over 40 of mix white & baby pink helium balloons for me! A party balloon, decos & a *party zone* sign! haha.. helped me out wit the decos... Then the DJ came (Rahu).. hehe followed by relatives, colleagues, friends... Was super busy to entertain everyone.. clement & lulu helped me out by bbq-ing the food.. cake arrived ard 9ish.. ok too much to say so i shall summerize anw.

* I had super nice entrance decos thanks to ali!
* Good music thx to Rahu! We were like in a club! hahaha.. indeed a party.
* Had food to eat thanks to clement & Lulu bbqing downstairs
* Delicious cake, *ice-cream cake* frm nic & rebekah.
* Good coy, close relatives, colleagues, awesome frds... vanessa,yel,vincent,cher,kenny,pat,alphi,johan,ken,ben etc. to all tt had come, thanks for makin it happen!

Did crazy drinkin games.. played circle of death... ended up we had a casualty.. =( shall nt mention abt it since its over but when he woke up he was perfectly fine even met him the nx morn to pass him back his stuff. thanks ali & ben for gg to the hospital wit him... =) alls well now!

To lazy to go into every single detail, will upload the party pics on fb & let the photos do the talking!

Fri night, went butterfact w colleagues as requested by ADAM. hahahaz. total 5 of us plus ali so 6.
Gt 2 btls (whiskey/martell), 2 jugs of vodka (lime/cranberry) 2 jagerboms, 2 housepours. we were wild can zomg i dint knw my colleagues were like tt.. hahaha. we were draggin the whiskey frm the btl, don rmb using the mixers except the 1st round of drinks. ended up me & evone had to look aft the guys.. -.- lol

OK SO MUCH HAPPENED IM SO LAZY TO BLOG.... abit more...

-Went party on a random weds night w nic,alphi,rahu,vans & yelto zirca/rebel. Thanks to rahu for the guest list. Drank befre we head in, partied then chill @ macs till 4ish. reach hm shower , time check 5+, woke up 7+ & went to work. so stone @ work...

-Xmas eve , bf off, had dinner @ xinwang @ kovan. He got me the member. nik was with us. went to vivo. bot him xmas presents. look at the beautiful xmas trees.. shopped. i was so happy, i bet nik was too. quality time spent.

-xmas, zouk w rahu for FERRY CORSTEN. AMAZING, 2 of us opened a btl of dewars @ zouk . start drinkin at 10-1, one word for the night. AMAZING!!! went back home i puked.... then i went to bed.

ok my dec is just damn amazing & just look at my photos on fb. too lazy to post any here or maybe when ive nth else better to do. for now, im busy wit my frds, son, bf...

Next post will be a summary of 2010!